Safety · Meeting people online · 18+
Online meeting safety rules
Getting to know someone new always involves some trust, but online trust should be built gradually. A few simple habits can significantly reduce the chance of an unpleasant or risky situation.
Do not share sensitive information too early
At the beginning of a conversation, there is no need to share your home address, exact workplace details, bank information, passwords or identity documents. Be careful with photos too: an image can accidentally reveal an address, vehicle plate or another identifying detail.
If someone repeatedly asks for information you do not want to share, that is already a good reason to slow down or end the conversation.
Watch for pressure and inconsistent stories
Warning signs can include extremely fast emotional attachment, constant pressure to move to another messenger, requests for money, offers involving transfers, requests for documents or verification codes, and stories that keep changing.
One unusual detail does not automatically mean someone is a scammer, but several signs together justify caution. You do not owe anyone a detailed explanation for ending a conversation.
Protect your account and device
Use a unique password and never send an authentication code to another person. If a message takes you to an unfamiliar website and asks you to sign in again, check the domain carefully before entering any credentials.
When you use a public or shared device, sign out when you finish. If the platform provides session management, review it occasionally for devices you do not recognize.
If you meet offline, keep control of the setting
For a first in-person meeting, a public and reasonably busy place is usually a safer choice. It is also sensible for someone you trust to know where you are going and for your trip home not to depend entirely on the person you just met.
If you feel uncomfortable before or during the meeting, you can leave at any time. You do not need to stay simply to be polite.